Anybody else have Chron's or ulcerative colitis?

I was diagnosed with chron's disease 6 years ago and had to have a bowel resectioning done last june. Nothing seems to work, no medicine nor surgery nothing keeps my flare ups away, i was on remicaid treatments but it was so bad with inflammation and scarres tissue surgery was needed. Now there are talks of more remicade and/or 6mp (6-mercaptopurine) and i kno some people who have taken immuno-immodulators and gotten bad infections and congestive heart failure.. Do the benefits outweigh the risks? Any tips or advice? Can anyone relate and help me please?